From Self-Confidence to God-Confidence
A Reflection on Identity, Value, and True Assurance
Confidence—I had it.
As far back as I can remember, I was sure of myself. I knew I was smart enough to succeed at anything I pursued. I had talents I was proud of. I had the ability to communicate clearly and persuade with ease.
But then, everything changed.
When Self-Confidence Fades
Suddenly, I couldn’t recognize myself.
My academic degrees, once a source of pride, seemed worthless. Speaking clearly became a struggle. My thoughts felt jumbled. Building an argument became a nightmare.
I stopped taking initiative. I became afraid—afraid of failure, afraid of trying. The bold, capable version of me… was gone.
I didn’t understand what had happened, but I knew what I felt: Fear.
Fear was the first fruit of this loss. I felt paralyzed. Like I had fallen into a bottomless pit—unable to climb out, no matter how hard I tried.
The Silent Shift: Trusting in Myself
Looking back, I now realize something: My confidence wasn’t just confidence—it was self-reliance.
Yes, I was a child of God. But deep down, my sense of worth was tied to my achievements. I felt secure when I performed well. I felt valuable when I succeeded. I felt strong when I had something to show.
But all of that became a shaky foundation.
“This is what the Lord says: Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who draws strength from mere flesh and whose heart turns away from the Lord.”
— Jeremiah 17:5 (NIV)
When that foundation crumbled, so did my identity.
Rediscovering True Confidence
I had to unlearn my idea of worth. And re-learn who I was through the lens of God’s truth. Here’s what I found:
| The Lie I Believed | God’s Truth | Reference |
|---|---|---|
| “I’m not wise.” | God gives wisdom. | Proverbs 2:6; James 3:17 |
| “It’s too late for me.” | God wants to give me a future. | 2 Peter 3:9; Romans 8:18 |
| “I’m fearful.” | God is with me—I don’t have to be afraid. | Isaiah 43:1 |
| “I’m not capable.” | My sufficiency is from God. | 2 Corinthians 3:5 |
| “I have no value.” | I was bought at a price—God gave His Son for me. | 1 Corinthians 6:20; John 3:16 |
| “I’m not useful.” | I am a member of Christ’s body with a role. | 1 Corinthians 12:20–27 |
| “I’m exhausted.” | God gives strength to the weary. | Isaiah 40:29 |
✨ A thought for today:
Confidence in self may crumble—but confidence in Christ will carry you through.
